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    我们在悉尼过的不是生活而是寂寞

    这是我一直座右铭的四句话:
     
    人生:不是用来挥霍的,而是用来付出的。
    幸福:不是由环境带来的,而是来自心理的,只有你心里快乐了幸福了,环境才是美丽的;
    婚礼:不是给别人看的,而是对自己说的;
    婚姻:不是要找一个合适的人,而是做一个合适的人;
     
     
    This has been my motto of the four lines:(可能翻译的不是很好)
    Life:Not used to a big-spending, but to give.
    Happiness: Not by the environment ,it depends on psychological reasons;the environment is beautiful when you feeling happiness inside
    Wedding:Not for others to see, do for yourselves;
    Marriage:Is not looking for a suitable person, but to do a fit person
     
    我一直都很珍惜自己的生活,在平淡的人生,平坦的路上一直是一个幸运儿。只是每一次在做出选择和抉择的时候自己总是一个愚者,愚到撞墙才知道回头。
    虽然幸运总是在我身边,但是经常在我手中滑过。我总是相信前方道路是美好的,我总是向着我的前方前进。。。不要活在男人的世界里,要有自己的一份小小的理想和希望。
    我一直等待着一个人,可以让我燃起我心中的火花,但是///
     
    澳洲的夜静悄悄的,原来我们在悉尼过的不是生活而是寂寞。。。
    寂寞让我懂得去珍惜生活,寂寞让我懂得不去争夺,寂寞让我懂得自己开心快乐。
     
    很怕夜深人静的时候,静的无声无息好像只有一个小小的电脑还会喘气。Scared of the dead of night
     
    每天睡觉之前都要听上几首歌,浏览一会网页才会很不情愿的关上电脑。
    最近觉得自己有点Overload,无论是对人或事物都没有以前的那种好奇,对什么都是漠不关心,可能自己也走进了没心没肺一族。浏览了一下自己的QQ和msn中的上百个好友家人同事和同学,原来真正想述说心理话的一个都没有。一直觉得很多人很孤独,原来最后无助的是自己。
     
    有时候觉得自己是生活的强者,其实现在才发现自己是一个生活的弱者,原来自己不懂得如何去表达自己需要人关心,需要人照顾的一面,原来我不是败给了寂寞而是败给了自己。
     
    今晚的思绪有一点乱,可能是3年多没有回国的缘故吧,今天已经拿到年底回国的票了,让我有一点小小的喜悦,期待一切和想象中的一样好。。。
     

     Let me have a little joy, looking forward to all and perceived as good. . .

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    Jenny Jiangwrote:
    嗯 要珍惜能跟你谈心的朋友喔!
    没有了寂寞 哪来的生活呢?
    你需要的是一个家吧
    祝你找到幸福 不再寂寞 :)
    Oct. 13
    lu chenwrote:
    bless u. i tried to conact u for mid-autumn day dinner, but didn't get through.原来你来澳洲3年了啊。。。。好男人是有的, 可能是关在小小的研究室里的缘故吧。保持联系和我一起出去玩吧?enjoying life is a personal affair. u don't wait, u make it. 不管怎样,祝好吧。想放松下就给我电话——虽然在修ISN,请别介意,我不会越界的。
    Oct. 4
    ela leewrote:
    喜欢那个四句座右铭~
    快回趟家吧,回去一趟就都好了。
    Sept. 22
    子晴 高wrote:
    哇 你那么久没回去了呀 最近好吗
    Sept. 22

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